I remember when I was preparing for my husband and I's wedding it was a lot of work but it was a great day. I think the biggest thing that I learned from that experience was that attitude is what matters. Someone I know had a really awful wedding day because they were so upset that everything didn't go exactly as they had planned. So when I heard about that I decided that I didn't want to have an awful wedding. So I decided to plan and work hard to make it the best all the way up until the day of the wedding and then what ever happened is what happened and I was just going to enjoy it. it's a good thing that I had that goal because there were some big things that went "wrong" (Like the lady that did my flowers missed one of the pollens on my flowers and there was a big yellow spot on my white dress for at least half the day)but I didn't let it bother me and I still think it was the best day ever!